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Love through Sunshines and Gravity Maze
We lost our furry friend this year. Over 8 years ago we welcomed this cuddle fluff from the streets of our neighborhood into our home....


Emptiness Deep Within
"I bo not love you az much az I love DaD" She writes this in tiny print and puts the card next to me while I make dinner. It is as if she...


Saddest Girl in the World
"Dad said he has $4 in his wallet. It's okay because he paid rent and he has some groceries for this week." My heart sinks, my face turns...


Dear Foster Daughter,
Baby girl, Every night you go to bed with thoughts weighing heavy on your mind. Every morning you wake up ready to fight another day....


Ages and Stages
Clarence reminds everyone on the call that things come at "ages and stages" and Dad asks the first question he's asked in the 5 months...


Enough is Enough
People ask, "How can anyone abuse a child?" I ask, "How can anyone sit back and do nothing about a child being abused?" It's not enough...


Here we go again
I think often of my baby boys. I miss them and one day the feeling will be so overwhelming I will buy a plane ticket and show up...


Shattered versions of normal
Our home and lives were shattered under the weight of brokenness and instability that came from two teary blue-eyed boys holding a duffel...


It doesn't get easier, it just gets more familiar
"You're not going to invite him to your house, are you?" Yes, yes I am. It's time. Avoidance is an understandable response, but it can...


So...do you ever see or talk to them?
It's been one month since my boys reunified with their bio father. So what's going on for them? Despite promises to the contrary, my boys...
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